Hi Yall

I’m feeling super wonderful people. Life is really good and things just keep getting better and better. My new biz is growing comfortably and I’ve got my eye on somebody romantically. I haven’t had time in the last few days to really write on the site like I would like to but I have been […]

Before I start this let me just say that I’m now perceived as a cocky, arrogant, know it all. When I was younger, I was a pushover.  My dad was one especially with my mom so I’m guessing thats where I got it.  Not to mention I was raised in a house of women with […]

When I was younger I had a really bad temper. It took me until I was about 10 to really grow out of it but I remember how my blood would boil and I would lose control as if my hate was playing Geppetto with my puppet strings. So after I became a real boy, […]

They have been warning us of a winter storm for a few days and today it finally hit. Good news is that for the first time in at least five years my job actually closed down. No tax preparation for me today. Aden and me it the hay inside while the snow hit the ground […]

Ok so you may have or may not have noticed that I kinda sold out with all the ads on the side and bottom of the page. I decided that this was the most effective way to balance the costs that come with running the site. So to show your appreciation feel free to click […]

So work on the site continues. If you’ve been on it in the last few days, you’ve noticed that the site has been changing more than a teenager going thru puberty.  But I finally decided on a look.  I think it looks good and clean like a fresh cut lawn.  Some features on the site […]

So I’ve been making some more tweaks to the site. Fixing some stuff while breaking other stuff. Things are coming along slowly with my job playing vampire clock, sucking all of my time away. But my work continues nonetheless. I’m looking for writers for the site. If interested, email ocbenji@ocbenji.com stating what you could bring […]

www.ocbenji.com Yes ladies and gentlemen, it’s live! Its been a dream of mine for a while to have a site to call my own and after the bidding war from hell, here we are.  Now I won’t get into everything this site will be about yet because I’m still in talks with some other partners.  […]