Sleep is such a vital part of being healthy. It’s when your body “punches out of work”. Your organs get a chance to rest, you heal, and your brain releases it’s deepest desires or fears via dreams. When you start lacking sleep it is apparent to yourself and others. For one you don’t look rested, […]

Last night I decided to venture out to “some place new” aka Concord   We went to this Sports Bar which of course was packed due to the game. I did my usual routine of scoping out the place to see which areas to focus on for my favorite activity of people watching. I immediately […]

I decided today that I have two passions. Art and Taxes. I’m a quirky one, thats for sure but I love them both. But let me define. Taxes is pretty self explanatory, I love everything about them, the way you can play with the numbers to your advantage or use them to screw somebody and […]

Message to Sharon I met her about a month and a half ago and we fell instantly in love. Everything about her seemed to fit in my life so perfectly like legos. She has a daughter, who is a few months older than Aden. They get along great. She surprised me with how strong and […]

If you like the nice and politically correct, gentlemanly, and coherent Benji, then you might want to skip this one….. Don’t say I didn’t warn you. So I’m over a friend’s house helping her with her very complicated taxes and out of NOWHERE this bitch turns into the megaphone for God and starts ranting about […]

I was at work today on a personal call and had an epiphany or maybe just a duh moment. You all know that rule. The one that states that when your with someone, that everybody wants you and when you single, nobody does. Its been said a million different ways like, “a watched pot never […]

Born To Be Who were you born to be? If you don’t know then turn the question right back at me I was born to shine brighter than the sun in the savanna Success and me are expected monkey with a banana Because I was made by God, same as you Thats why there’s no […]

I had one of those life changing, mind opening, out of the box, duh! weekends. Have you ever known and believed in something, some idea, some force, some feeling but couldn’t find anyway to explain it and then BAM! It smacks you right in the face and you start looking at everything different. Like eating […]

“We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and fabolous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small doesn’t serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We were born to make manifest the […]

“Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already been made perfect, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me. Brothers, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining […]