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Tag: Aden

  • So funny I had to have a smoke after

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    I decided today that I have two passions. Art and Taxes. I’m a quirky one, thats for sure but I love them both. But let me define. Taxes is pretty self explanatory, I love everything about them, the way you can play with the numbers to your advantage or use them to screw somebody and…

  • “Don’t worry honey, it happens to every guy”

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    ocbenji

    Writer’s block. But not. I have too much going on here and no way to pick what to throw out there so instead of writing something I will regret I will just give you my boring day in fun little bullet points. No matter how many times I put Aden back in his bed last…

  • Wanna hear it? Hear it go!

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    Message to Sharon I met her about a month and a half ago and we fell instantly in love. Everything about her seemed to fit in my life so perfectly like legos. She has a daughter, who is a few months older than Aden. They get along great. She surprised me with how strong and…

  • On the way back from Slims…..

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    I had more fun this weekend than I should have had. I drank again. I thought Aden hated me. Ever since he was little, every time he saw my face, he would just smile through his excited eyes. But over the weekend, it was all about playing with his aunt and cousins. Granted they are…

  • Are you still spotting for me in heaven?

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    ocbenji

    Dear Melissa, While I can’t talk about everything we’ve been though, its only right that I write what I can. I remember the first day we met about 15 years ago in Mississippi. You and those glasses that made you seem so mean. You were mean. But even though we were so young I knew…

  • The Catch Up

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    ocbenji

    To the 2-3 people who actually read this: Sorry that I haven’t shown much love to the public post lately.  Life has been pretty busy in the last few weeks and I should have written about it on here so here is the ketchup.(Don’t spill)  My last day at Energy Assistance It was a pretty…

  • Outsmarting a 2 year old and failing

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    ocbenji

    There are those little moments in life that tell you that things are changing and never going back to the way there were.  Aden doesn’t really like to go to is own bed and sleep.  But he does understand that when he says ok to something that he has to do it.  Its about 9:30…

  • If only you could call the past….

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    ocbenji

    In life sometimes you meet these people that are very special to you yet they piss you off to no end. But tonight isn’t about that, its about how your view on a person can change and evolve the more you go through. For instance a friend came over tonight to play Halo 3 and…

  • You might want to skip this one

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    ocbenji

    I’m still pretty much the same. Just upgraded a little here and there but still essentially the same. Like the same car but with different wheels and computer system. I’ve been a little inspirationally starving even though I’ve had lots of that kind of food shoved my way. Its like I have the lamp that…

  • Deja Aden Vu

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    ocbenji

    He watches his son ask he begs for 5 more minutes of a movie he sees a glimpse of the future. One of those glimpses like deja vu that he always sees and forgets only to see it again as it happens. He sees his son older as he saw his younger brother, as he…