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Tag: Aden

  • I know the secret

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    ocbenji

    I had one of those life changing, mind opening, out of the box, duh! weekends. Have you ever known and believed in something, some idea, some force, some feeling but couldn’t find anyway to explain it and then BAM! It smacks you right in the face and you start looking at everything different. Like eating…

  • Moving On

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    ocbenji

    Tonight marks the last night that I will spending at the only home Aden and I have even known since I became a father and he became my son. Alot has happened in this house, good and bad. My son was born and spent his entire life living here. As I look out of my…

  • Faster than the speed of life

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    ocbenji

    I performed in church today. It took me 2 hours to write what I spoke. At least she liked it. Everything is going so fast these days, I’m moving, school is starting again, work is about to get really busy, I get to go to Virgina for business (yay!), I have to make sure my…

  • “Hey you, Dante, may you live forever!”

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    ocbenji

    So tonight was experimental cooking night. Tonight it was stir fry vegetable alfredo. Aden and I loved it, I’ll have to make it again sometime. I’ve also been thinking and I decided that I do need a special woman in my life but more on that in the private post. I finally got to see…

  • I told yall this like 5 years ago

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    ocbenji

    I was re-reading one of the best books ever written next to the Bible and came across a fundamental truth that I’ve been preaching for years now. “Women rule the world. When the girl’s on my side, I just increase my odds by about 80 percent for having great success. You girls don’t understand how…

  • Aftershocks

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    ocbenji

    The bombshell hit a few days ago and I still haven’t recovered. My normal wolverine-ish abilities aren’t kicking in and not cool. I got to see the queen of chic again today during a chance encounter, good times. Good because at least i could hide whats been going from at least one person. #2 did…

  • Down That River

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    ocbenji

    I blame you for all, actually i don’t I understand young Moses, and Aden won’t

  • You Taught Me

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    ocbenji

    Here is a quick shout out to a few people who have taught me some lessons in life (Whether I wanted to learn them or not).  I’ll always love you all for your lessons because I wouldn’t be who I am without them. The people should know who they are but if they don’t it…

  • Do you think that I could be a professional killer?……

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    ocbenji
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    Its funny where life will take you.  Just a short 2 months ago I never thought I could feel like this again.  I feel like I did in 01.  I feel like I can go back.  Back home where I left myself.  Myself actually came to get me.  My mirror image, its me but kinda…

  • Warning: Lack of sleep can affect your thinking

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    ocbenji

    The last 5 days truely had an effect on my yesterday, luckily I called in to my last shift or else I would have totally lost it.  Ms. Westemeier picked up that something was wrong but it took my lady to actually pinpoint the problem.  I thought things I shouldn’t have yesterday and voiced it. …