For the last few days, I catch myself staring at my son, marveling at how much he’s grown in the last year. Its not just how much he’d grown physically even though he is my little big boy. Its how much he’s grown mental and emotionally. There are things that a year ago he would […]

Perfect straightness looks bent. Extreme skill looks clumsy. A brilliant speech sounds like stammering. -Lao Tzu

    Growing up there was always this thought in the back of my head that I was more intelligent than I should be or somehow smarter on the inside than on the outside. I have no idea how to explain that. Anyway, this “intelligence” barred me from really identifying with people. Sure I could […]

So… I’m sitting bored at work.  Actually, not so much bored as have way too much work to do and don’t know where to start… so I started putzing around with this site.  I was reading a few of the old posts – some of which… very clarifying!  😛  Not to make you nervous Ben, […]

I love this! I just got my first unemployment check yesterday. Now granted I worked my ass off the last year and probably deserve this time off, I had no idea it would be this good. Its I live at a spa or something. Here is a usual day for me:

have you ever looked at a picture of yourself and seen a stranger in the background? it makes you wonder how many strangers have a photo of you. how many moments of other peoples lives have we been in? are we part of someones life when their dreams come true? or were we there when […]

“She remembered everything I said, and all my life I have had the feeling that what I think and what I say are worth remembering. She gave me that…”

My son got me to thinking today. He does what children his age normally do and endlessly quizzed me with a one word question over and over. Why? Why ask why? Well because its will give you the answer that matters the most. Who? is kinda important, What? is a little more. Where? usually isn’t […]

I decided today that I have two passions. Art and Taxes. I’m a quirky one, thats for sure but I love them both. But let me define. Taxes is pretty self explanatory, I love everything about them, the way you can play with the numbers to your advantage or use them to screw somebody and […]

I had more fun this weekend than I should have had. I drank again. I thought Aden hated me. Ever since he was little, every time he saw my face, he would just smile through his excited eyes. But over the weekend, it was all about playing with his aunt and cousins. Granted they are […]