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Benjamin Biddle  |  ocbenji@ocbenji.com  |  459 posts


I'm Ben or OCBENJI depending on the day . I love to have fun and am still looking for more ways to have it. I'm a super daddy and love having fun with my son Aden. I am a super dreamer who believes he can do anything! I've been described as crazy and creative which comes together quite well. Say hi!

The Terrible/Terrific Timing of Tiffany (Part 1)

The Terrible/Terrific Timing of Tiffany (Part 1)

→  September 14, 2020 Comments Off on The Terrible/Terrific Timing of Tiffany (Part 1)

The Terrific Timing of Tiffany I’m a believer that things happen when and as they should. While it may not seem to happen as fast or as slow as we would like sometimes, in retrospect, the timing is always perfect. As is certainly the case of a certain woman who entered my life, let’s call […]

I am Ben

I am Ben

→  May 20, 2020 Comments Off on I am Ben

I am a Scorpio who has defeated his jealousy.I am a people loving introvert who is great at playing extrovert.I am a lover of animals and doesn’t want a pet.I am a lover of a good thunderstorm, warm summer rain or cool fall breeze.I am computer and anime nerd who craves sleeping under the stars, […]

Rant of the Day:  Your Inner Flame

Rant of the Day: Your Inner Flame

→  September 7, 2015 Comments Off on Rant of the Day: Your Inner Flame

Its been a looooooong time but I’m back with a new rant!  Enjoy!

Swirlin Around

Swirlin Around

→  February 3, 2012 Comments Off on Swirlin Around

Swirlin Around   He sits down with himself to figure out why he does things the way that he does.  He is nice when there is a no reason to.  He is nice even though he shouldn’t be.  He smiles and does favors for those that might and sometimes already have spit in his face. […]

Guess Who’s Writing a Book?

Guess Who’s Writing a Book?

→  September 9, 2011 Comments Off on Guess Who’s Writing a Book?

If you probably couldn’t tell, its me!!!!   While I don’t have many details about it I can say that it will be an ebook and it will be useful for lots of people out there seeking to push themselves farther than they are now.  I’m still looking for a title that incorporated OC. Overcoming […]

2011 So Far…….

2011 So Far…….

→  May 11, 2011 Comments Off on 2011 So Far…….

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100 Facts About Me:  Scorpio Edition

100 Facts About Me: Scorpio Edition

→  May 8, 2011 5

This is from one of my new favorite sites www.scorpioseason.com   This past week the trending topic on Twitter has been #100factsaboutme. Out of boredom, I decided to tweet some facts about myself that I knew my fellow Scorpios would relate too. I never thought I would actually make it to 100, but with the […]

Sympathy to a Swordfight

Sympathy to a Swordfight

→  May 5, 2011 Comments Off on Sympathy to a Swordfight

After a really long night with no sleep I finally drifted off to sleep around 9 AM.  I rarely remember my dreams but this one is still crisp in my mind.  You just don’t forget getting your ass kicked in a sword fight. It’s story time!   The snow falls slowly and flurries around in […]

Mistakes Made, Lessons Learned

Mistakes Made, Lessons Learned

→  May 2, 2011 Comments Off on Mistakes Made, Lessons Learned

  The events of last two years have transformed me.  The fact that I can admit this is HUGE!!! (yea with 3 “!”’s)  I write this for myself as a reminder to not forget these valuable experiences.  And like anything else that I’ve done on my own for myself, it will end up coming from […]

Not Ready But Willing

Not Ready But Willing

→  April 18, 2011 Comments Off on Not Ready But Willing

This is a post from the wonderful Kelly Diels.  Author of the great blog Cleavage.   We’re never really ready. I’m  not ready to apologize. I’m not ready for a relationship. I’m not ready for marriage. We’re not ready to have kids. I’m not ready to apply to that program/school/job/life. I’m not ready to face the […]