The OCBENJI Blog (beta)

Author: ocbenji

  • The Terrible/Terrific Timing of Tiffany (Part 1)

    —

    by

    ocbenji

    The Terrific Timing of Tiffany I’m a believer that things happen when and as they should. While it may not seem to happen as fast or as slow as we would like sometimes, in retrospect, the timing is always perfect. As is certainly the case of a certain woman who entered my life, let’s call…

  • I am Ben

    —

    by

    ocbenji
    in ,

    I am a Scorpio who has defeated his jealousy.I am a people loving introvert who is great at playing extrovert.I am a lover of animals and doesn’t want a pet.I am a lover of a good thunderstorm, warm summer rain or cool fall breeze.I am computer and anime nerd who craves sleeping under the stars,…

  • Rant of the Day: Your Inner Flame

    —

    by

    ocbenji
    in ,

    Its been a looooooong time but I’m back with a new rant!  Enjoy!

  • Swirlin Around

    —

    by

    ocbenji
    in ,

    Swirlin Around   He sits down with himself to figure out why he does things the way that he does.  He is nice when there is a no reason to.  He is nice even though he shouldn’t be.  He smiles and does favors for those that might and sometimes already have spit in his face.…

  • Guess Who’s Writing a Book?

    —

    by

    ocbenji
    in ,

    If you probably couldn’t tell, its me!!!!   While I don’t have many details about it I can say that it will be an ebook and it will be useful for lots of people out there seeking to push themselves farther than they are now.  I’m still looking for a title that incorporated OC. Overcoming…

  • 2011 So Far…….

    —

    by

    ocbenji
    in

    video platformvideo managementvideo solutionsvideo player

  • 100 Facts About Me: Scorpio Edition

    —

    by

    ocbenji
    in

    This is from one of my new favorite sites www.scorpioseason.com   This past week the trending topic on Twitter has been #100factsaboutme. Out of boredom, I decided to tweet some facts about myself that I knew my fellow Scorpios would relate too. I never thought I would actually make it to 100, but with the…

  • Sympathy to a Swordfight

    —

    by

    ocbenji
    in ,

    After a really long night with no sleep I finally drifted off to sleep around 9 AM.  I rarely remember my dreams but this one is still crisp in my mind.  You just don’t forget getting your ass kicked in a sword fight. It’s story time!   The snow falls slowly and flurries around in…

  • Mistakes Made, Lessons Learned

    —

    by

    ocbenji
    in , ,

      The events of last two years have transformed me.  The fact that I can admit this is HUGE!!! (yea with 3 “!”’s)  I write this for myself as a reminder to not forget these valuable experiences.  And like anything else that I’ve done on my own for myself, it will end up coming from…

  • Not Ready But Willing

    —

    by

    ocbenji
    in

    This is a post from the wonderful Kelly Diels.  Author of the great blog Cleavage.   We’re never really ready. I’m  not ready to apologize. I’m not ready for a relationship. I’m not ready for marriage. We’re not ready to have kids. I’m not ready to apply to that program/school/job/life. I’m not ready to face the…