Benjamin Biddle | ocbenji@ocbenji.com | 456 posts
I'm Ben or OCBENJI depending on the day . I love to have fun and am still looking for more ways to have it. I'm a super daddy and love having fun with my son Aden. I am a super dreamer who believes he can do anything! I've been described as crazy and creative which comes together quite well. Say hi!
Swirlin Around He sits down with himself to figure out why he does things the way that he does. He is nice when there is a no reason to. He is nice even though he shouldn’t be. He smiles and does favors for those that might and sometimes already have spit in his face. [...]
If you probably couldn’t tell, its me!!!! While I don’t have many details about it I can say that it will be an ebook and it will be useful for lots of people out there seeking to push themselves farther than they are now. I’m still looking for a title that incorporated OC. Overcoming [...]
This is from one of my new favorite sites www.scorpioseason.com This past week the trending topic on Twitter has been #100factsaboutme. Out of boredom, I decided to tweet some facts about myself that I knew my fellow Scorpios would relate too. I never thought I would actually make it to 100, but with the [...]
After a really long night with no sleep I finally drifted off to sleep around 9 AM. I rarely remember my dreams but this one is still crisp in my mind. You just don’t forget getting your ass kicked in a sword fight. It’s story time! The snow falls slowly and flurries around in [...]
The events of last two years have transformed me. The fact that I can admit this is HUGE!!! (yea with 3 “!”’s) I write this for myself as a reminder to not forget these valuable experiences. And like anything else that I’ve done on my own for myself, it will end up coming from [...]
This is a post from the wonderful Kelly Diels. Author of the great blog Cleavage. We’re never really ready. I’m not ready to apologize. I’m not ready for a relationship. I’m not ready for marriage. We’re not ready to have kids. I’m not ready to apply to that program/school/job/life. I’m not ready to face the [...]
She looks into his eyes and time slows to a crawl His eyes try to avoid her gaze, his hands clench to a ball He knows the words that are coming all too well Their relationship was a class and she was ringing the bell It was his fault and he knew it [...]
You tired? Me too. Let the tears fall. You hurt? Me too. Let the tears fall. Reached your limit? Me too. Let the tears fall. Don’t trust men? Well I don’t trust women. Let the tears fall. You won’t go through it again? Me either. Let the tears fall. You want to be happy? Me [...]
What is the nice guy and where did he come from? Was he born or shaped? Natural or contrived? And why does he seem to get screwed over so much? Before I start, let me say that this applies to the “Good Girl” too. What is a “Good Guy”? A good guy is somebody [...]
