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Benjamin Biddle  |  ocbenji@ocbenji.com  |  456 posts


I'm Ben or OCBENJI depending on the day . I love to have fun and am still looking for more ways to have it. I'm a super daddy and love having fun with my son Aden. I am a super dreamer who believes he can do anything! I've been described as crazy and creative which comes together quite well. Say hi!

Swirlin Around

Swirlin Around

→  February 3, 2012 0

Swirlin Around   He sits down with himself to figure out why he does things the way that he does.  He is nice when there is a no reason to.  He is nice even though he shouldn’t be.  He smiles and does favors for those that might and sometimes already have spit in his face. [...]

Guess Who’s Writing a Book?

Guess Who’s Writing a Book?

→  September 9, 2011 0

If you probably couldn’t tell, its me!!!!   While I don’t have many details about it I can say that it will be an ebook and it will be useful for lots of people out there seeking to push themselves farther than they are now.  I’m still looking for a title that incorporated OC. Overcoming [...]

2011 So Far…….

2011 So Far…….

→  May 11, 2011 0

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100 Facts About Me:  Scorpio Edition

100 Facts About Me: Scorpio Edition

→  May 8, 2011 2

This is from one of my new favorite sites www.scorpioseason.com   This past week the trending topic on Twitter has been #100factsaboutme. Out of boredom, I decided to tweet some facts about myself that I knew my fellow Scorpios would relate too. I never thought I would actually make it to 100, but with the [...]

Sympathy to a Swordfight

Sympathy to a Swordfight

→  May 5, 2011 0

After a really long night with no sleep I finally drifted off to sleep around 9 AM.  I rarely remember my dreams but this one is still crisp in my mind.  You just don’t forget getting your ass kicked in a sword fight. It’s story time!   The snow falls slowly and flurries around in [...]

Mistakes Made, Lessons Learned

Mistakes Made, Lessons Learned

→  May 2, 2011 0

  The events of last two years have transformed me.  The fact that I can admit this is HUGE!!! (yea with 3 “!”’s)  I write this for myself as a reminder to not forget these valuable experiences.  And like anything else that I’ve done on my own for myself, it will end up coming from [...]

Not Ready But Willing

Not Ready But Willing

→  April 18, 2011 0

This is a post from the wonderful Kelly Diels.  Author of the great blog Cleavage.   We’re never really ready. I’m  not ready to apologize. I’m not ready for a relationship. I’m not ready for marriage. We’re not ready to have kids. I’m not ready to apply to that program/school/job/life. I’m not ready to face the [...]

His Side

His Side

→  April 14, 2011 0

    She looks into his eyes and time slows to a crawl His eyes try to avoid her gaze, his hands clench to a ball He knows the words that are coming all too well Their relationship was a class and she was ringing the bell It was his fault and he knew it [...]

Let the Tears Fall

Let the Tears Fall

→  April 6, 2011 0

You tired?  Me too.  Let the tears fall. You hurt?   Me too.  Let the tears fall. Reached your limit?  Me too.  Let the tears fall. Don’t trust men?  Well I don’t trust women.  Let the tears fall. You won’t go through it again?  Me either.  Let the tears fall. You want to be happy?  Me [...]

But I’m a Nice Guy…….

But I’m a Nice Guy…….

→  April 3, 2011 0

What is the nice guy and where did he come from?  Was he born or shaped?  Natural or contrived?  And why does he seem to get screwed over so much? Before I start, let me say that this applies to the “Good Girl” too.   What is a “Good Guy”? A good guy is somebody [...]