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Benjamin Biddle  |  ocbenji@ocbenji.com  |  459 posts


I'm Ben or OCBENJI depending on the day . I love to have fun and am still looking for more ways to have it. I'm a super daddy and love having fun with my son Aden. I am a super dreamer who believes he can do anything! I've been described as crazy and creative which comes together quite well. Say hi!

His Side

His Side

→  April 14, 2011 Comments Off on His Side

    She looks into his eyes and time slows to a crawl His eyes try to avoid her gaze, his hands clench to a ball He knows the words that are coming all too well Their relationship was a class and she was ringing the bell It was his fault and he knew it […]

Let the Tears Fall

Let the Tears Fall

→  April 6, 2011 Comments Off on Let the Tears Fall

You tired?  Me too.  Let the tears fall. You hurt?   Me too.  Let the tears fall. Reached your limit?  Me too.  Let the tears fall. Don’t trust men?  Well I don’t trust women.  Let the tears fall. You won’t go through it again?  Me either.  Let the tears fall. You want to be happy?  Me […]

But I’m a Nice Guy…….

But I’m a Nice Guy…….

→  April 3, 2011 1

What is the nice guy and where did he come from?  Was he born or shaped?  Natural or contrived?  And why does he seem to get screwed over so much? Before I start, let me say that this applies to the “Good Girl” too.   What is a “Good Guy”? A good guy is somebody […]

Perspective

Perspective

→  March 19, 2011 1

  How do you see things?   So I’m sitting on the couch getting upset because of the actions of somebody.  And if you know me then you know that I rarely get upset but when I do get upset, a nuclear explosion is eminent!  I was about to open my mouth and erupt when that other […]

OCBENJI.com Word of the Day 01/27/2011: Splash

OCBENJI.com Word of the Day 01/27/2011: Splash

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You Deserve

You Deserve

→  December 29, 2010 Comments Off on You Deserve

eye contact smiles in the morning food made with pure intention clean drinking water, fresh air Hello, Please, Thank you. time to think about it a chance to show them what you’re made of a second chance an education health care, including dental multiple orgasms weekends and the summer off 8 hours of sleep play […]

Shadow of a Ghost

Shadow of a Ghost

→  December 14, 2010 Comments Off on Shadow of a Ghost

Things have changed alot since I saw you last I have a new lady, a baby, damn alot of time has past Well actually only a year and some change But in that time I’ve made a big change I’ve seen things that I thought could only be imagined Felt things that I thought could […]

Outstanding Conversations: Barb Breaks it Down

Outstanding Conversations: Barb Breaks it Down

→  September 19, 2010 Comments Off on Outstanding Conversations: Barb Breaks it Down

The first of many……… Outstanding Conversations:  Barb Breaks it Down

Enough

Enough

→  September 16, 2010 Comments Off on Enough

Her:  “I love you” Me:   “How much?” Her:  “Enough” That’s the tail end of a conversation that a had with someone a long time ago.  I didn’t understand it at the time but she was 100% right/truthful/correct in her answer to me.  At the time I was a bit disappointed with her answer.  I wanted […]

The First Step

The First Step

→  August 21, 2010 Comments Off on The First Step

The First Step I’ve run it through my mind a million different times Rearranged the words into a million different rhymes It still sounds good and makes sense so why not act? The theory has been proven so why not take it as fact? Is it doubt that stays my feet preventing my step? Or […]