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  • Good luck decoding that M

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    He sees what he wants but knows better, first it was his trust in others that failed and now it’s his trust in himself, he knows the game a little too well, he knows its rigged. More and more thoughts run through his head as he edges his way toward the cliff’s end. The view…

  • Revelations

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    Well I don’t know what it is about weddings but this one must have been special, because it helped me decided that I (gasp) actually want to get married. I guess now I actually have to find a girlfriend. Effective immediately I will be accepting applications. Prospective Girlfriend Wanted: Qualified applicants will include females who…

  • Here he comes to save the gay!

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    Ok so the subject has nothing to do with this particular post but I thought it sounded cool. Anyhoo i did something courageous a few days ago. I was doing my normal too cheap to buy gas and pay for parking thing and riding the bus. There was this lady staring out the window kinda…

  • Under the Weather

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    I saw a rainbow this morning when dropping Aden off. It was reminded me of my current favorite song. Under The Weather by KT Tunstall. Check out the video and reminsce with me.  

  • Random Ramblings

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    ocbenji

    Tonight I’m coming to you from next to a sleeping, drooling, snoring, yet precious baby boy. Which got me thinking about how things can seem all great but can have a nasty side to them. Take my son for instance, lord knows I’d rip this universe apart if I thought it would help him in…

  • Relationships for Dummies

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    ocbenji

    Ok so did you ever notice that fireworks, on they’re way up look like sperm on fire? Just one of the random thoughts that passed thru my mind tonight during the fireworks. The edge is really off now that I know where a certain person stands on a certain issue, and it was very obvious…

  • New Year’s Resolution # 3

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    ocbenji

    So the way I see it, if its meant to be, there is no possible way for me to stop it.

  • So…..like…..I was thinking and…

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    Is it really all that important? Granted we are social creatures and for most people the idea of finding that “special someone” is in that list of things to do before they die, should it really be something to shoot for? Isn’t it ok to be alone anymore? Ok lets imagine this: Women don’t have…

  • Poker is for whores!

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    ocbenji

    Love is like a game of solitaire, sometimes there is no way to win, you just have to re-shuffle the cards and deal again.

  • Looking back on my travels of the day……..

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    ocbenji

    Usually one runs away, but i managed to walk away very slowly and somehow ended up taking a nap on a hill. Go figure i guess thats just me, all wierd and shit. Oh well i gotta get back in the mood for this whole working thing. Any if last night was any indicator, i…