So I’m a really intellectual person, I’m in my head more than I should be.  I think about things wayyyyyy too much sometimes and to get my mind off of something or somebody, I focus on something else as a distraction.  Something I should be focusing on.  I now realize that this is a [...]

Advice for Life from the Book of Benji Work as if you don’t need the money Walk as if you have nowhere to go Talk as if you don’t have any reason to Love as if you’ve never been hurt Live as if you don’t know death Trust as if you’ve never been betrayed Hug [...]

So I know this girl that I used to work with and I hated her with a passion.  Personality-wise she embodied everything that I hated in a person.  She thought that she was always right,  that she was above approaching any man, expected a man to take care of her, and was super cocky.  You [...]

Today I visited my past, today it also visited me. Today I watched a sinner get saved, today I watched the saved sin. Today I wanted what wasn’t mine, today I led a person’s property back to him. Today I lived in the moment, today the moment lived in me. Today I thought of her, [...]

In everyone’s life, at sometime, our inner fire goes out.  It is then burst into flame by an encounter with another human being.  We should all be thankful for those people who rekindle the inner spirit. -Proverbs 13:19-21 Readers who viewed this page, also viewed:NoiseNow thats just mean………What I’ve Gathered…………Powered by Where did they go [...]

For the last few days, I catch myself staring at my son, marveling at how much he’s grown in the last year. Its not just how much he’d grown physically even though he is my little big boy. Its how much he’s grown mental and emotionally. There are things that a year ago he would [...]

Perfect straightness looks bent. Extreme skill looks clumsy. A brilliant speech sounds like stammering. -Lao Tzu Readers who viewed this page, also viewed:Preaching BabyAs A Working Mom, It’s Hard To Find Time To MasturbateWord Of The Day 02/05/2008Powered by Where did they go from here?

    Growing up there was always this thought in the back of my head that I was more intelligent than I should be or somehow smarter on the inside than on the outside. I have no idea how to explain that. Anyway, this “intelligence” barred me from really identifying with people. Sure I could [...]

So… I’m sitting bored at work.  Actually, not so much bored as have way too much work to do and don’t know where to start… so I started putzing around with this site.  I was reading a few of the old posts – some of which… very clarifying!    Not to make you nervous Ben, [...]

I love this! I just got my first unemployment check yesterday. Now granted I worked my ass off the last year and probably deserve this time off, I had no idea it would be this good. Its I live at a spa or something. Here is a usual day for me: Readers who viewed this [...]