Author: ocbenji

  • The Guardian Angel

    You don’t pick us and we don’t pick you, we are chosen for each other… Forget what you know of wings and halos, flying and magic.  We are normal people who choose to help in extraordinary ways.  We instinctively know where we are needed and go there without hesitation.  We don’t take credit for our…

  • Love Defined

      “Love is a one-way street going from you out, and you give it because it makes you feel good to give it; because when you give it, it makes you strong. And that crazy, out of control, scary feeling – the feeling that most people think is love – it’s not really love at…

  • Leave Her Alone

    Leave Her Alone “Just leave her alone” The thoughts run though my head again You have plenty reason and logic to make your stand All you have to do is just get up and walk thru that door And never come back, and you won’t have to feel like this anymore But as I make…

  • Life Seasons

    Life Seasons Life happens like the cycles of seasons And things happen in it for many different reasons When you are young its summer and you have lots of fun But summers turns to fall and its all done For the summer was your youth were you learned and played away your days But you…

  • Are We Tech-Spoiled?

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  • How to Buy a Computer the OCBENJI Way

    Recently I’ve been bombarded by close to a million questions from friends and family about how to buy the perfect computer.  So I decided to put together a nice little guide to buying  computers, the OCBENJI way. Disclaimer: This is just the method that I use when computer (or any other electronic) shopping and it…

  • Giving in to Yourself

    Did you know that whether your aware of it or not, that there is something within you thats been clawing at you to get out.  A lion in the bushes waiting to pounce, a shark who tastes blood in the water and is ready to bite, an eagle about to snatch a fish out of…

  • Making the Voices Stop

      So I’m a really intellectual person, I’m in my head more than I should be.  I think about things wayyyyyy too much sometimes and to get my mind off of something or somebody, I focus on something else as a distraction.  Something I should be focusing on.  I now realize that this is a…

  • OCBENJI.com Word of the Day 03/01/2009: Skateboard

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  • OCBENJI.com Word of the Day 02/26/2009: Kite

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