The OCBENJI Blog (beta)

Author: ocbenji

  • And 5 hours later…..

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    ocbenji

    Moving status: Complete (Operation duration: 5 hours, 12 minutes, 6 seconds)

  • Moving On

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    ocbenji

    Tonight marks the last night that I will spending at the only home Aden and I have even known since I became a father and he became my son. Alot has happened in this house, good and bad. My son was born and spent his entire life living here. As I look out of my…

  • Faster than the speed of life

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    ocbenji

    I performed in church today. It took me 2 hours to write what I spoke. At least she liked it. Everything is going so fast these days, I’m moving, school is starting again, work is about to get really busy, I get to go to Virgina for business (yay!), I have to make sure my…

  • “Hey you, Dante, may you live forever!”

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    ocbenji

    So tonight was experimental cooking night. Tonight it was stir fry vegetable alfredo. Aden and I loved it, I’ll have to make it again sometime. I’ve also been thinking and I decided that I do need a special woman in my life but more on that in the private post. I finally got to see…

  • Adieu

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    ocbenji

    One day I was getting ready to go to work and I told my son’s mom, “Adieu”. She told me never to say that because it was more like a final goodbye rather than a see ya later. Well today I said Adieu in my own special way. And she’s probably reading this thinking its…

  • I told yall this like 5 years ago

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    ocbenji

    I was re-reading one of the best books ever written next to the Bible and came across a fundamental truth that I’ve been preaching for years now. “Women rule the world. When the girl’s on my side, I just increase my odds by about 80 percent for having great success. You girls don’t understand how…

  • The Pursuit

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    ocbenji

    It all started at Beans and Barley one night. A life changing night to be sure. My biggest blessings come from out of the blue and this one was no exception. The food comes and we eat, the belly, this life changing woman and me. Out comes a pad and circles are drawn, ideas discussed…

  • Better than Vitamin Water

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    ocbenji

    As she looked in my eyes I knew her words would be meaningless. Her glaze was deafening. She spoke while speaking but saying different things. What is someone “supposed to” do? Of course I knew my answer as others know theirs. Her eyes glaze up from the tears she holds back. Its one of those…

  • So that “W” that clueless always used was supposed to be an “F”

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    ocbenji

    9 WORDS WOMEN USE 1. Fine: This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up. 2. Five Minutes: If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes…

  • Don’t walk the walk if you can’t stir the coals

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    ocbenji
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    World’s Toughest Cowboy Three cowboys are sitting around a campfire, out on the lonesome prairie, each with the bravado for which cowboys are famous. A night of tall tales commences. The first says, “I must be the meanest, toughest cowboy there is. Why, just the other day, a bull got loose in the corral and…