In life sometimes you meet these people that are very special to you yet they piss you off to no end. But tonight isn’t about that, its about how your view on a person can change and evolve the more you go through. For instance a friend came over tonight to play Halo 3 and play with Aden. I watched her a lot tonight and noticed that my perception sucked back then. There are so many details and little things about her that I missed when we were dating. Time is like watching a movie normally and it gradually gets HD until BAM! ( I like using the word BAM) you start noticing little details that couldn’t or refused to before. All I can do is smile. I wonder if I would have been able to see what I could now back then if we would still be together. Sometimes I really can’t believe how stupid I was. But then again it makes me think, if I was that stupid back then and with time I got smarter, then right now I’m stupider than the me of 5 years from now. I’m thinking about this way too much. Maybe we are supposed to not know what your supposed to know until your supposed to know it. Whatever it all means, all I know is that I had fun tonight and my experiences and everything I had in the last 5 years allowed me to enjoy it more.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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