{"id":170,"date":"2008-01-05T05:04:00","date_gmt":"2008-01-05T10:04:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ocbenji.com\/blog\/?p=170"},"modified":"2008-01-05T05:04:00","modified_gmt":"2008-01-05T10:04:00","slug":"i-took-her-out-but-not-her-trash","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ocbenji.com\/blog\/2008\/01\/05\/i-took-her-out-but-not-her-trash\/","title":{"rendered":"I took her out but not her trash"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I did two things I don&#8217;t normally do today.  I took a beautiful young lady on a lunch date.  It was really fun.  Its been a while since I met somebody who was so alive.  I drank tonight.  Just a little wine from my private stash.  I&#8217;ve gotten over my fear of not having any control because I can say no to it.  And no means no.<\/p>\n<p>I learned something today.  Apparently it is a man&#8217;s duty to take the trash out.  I don&#8217;t know how we got stuck with it but I don&#8217;t know how women got stuck with cleaning and cooking so I guess I can just shut up about it.<\/p>\n<p>I miss you ( you know who you are)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I did two things I don&#8217;t normally do today. I took a beautiful young lady on a lunch date. It was really fun. Its been a while since I met somebody who was so alive. I drank tonight. Just a little wine from my private stash. I&#8217;ve gotten over my fear of not having any [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[114],"class_list":["post-170","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","tag-rash"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ocbenji.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/170","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ocbenji.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ocbenji.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ocbenji.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ocbenji.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=170"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ocbenji.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/170\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ocbenji.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=170"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ocbenji.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=170"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ocbenji.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=170"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}