{"id":138,"date":"2007-02-21T16:55:00","date_gmt":"2007-02-21T21:55:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ocbenji.com\/blog\/?p=138"},"modified":"2007-02-21T16:55:00","modified_gmt":"2007-02-21T21:55:00","slug":"qualified-info","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ocbenji.com\/blog\/2007\/02\/21\/qualified-info\/","title":{"rendered":"Qualified Info"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I just had a 15 minute sitdown with a couple married for 46 year and then another one with a couple married for 51.&nbsp; They gave me all kinda tips.&nbsp; The biggest thing they kept saying was that I had to love and respect the other person (duh) and that its a 50\/50 thing and that I won&#8217;t like everything they do or don&#8217;t do and vice versa, but I meet them half way.&nbsp; It was almost a yin and yang thing, the two people should compliement each other, making up for one&#8217;s weaknesses with the other&#8217;s strenghts and stuff.&nbsp; It wasn&#8217;t what they said because I&#8217;ve heard it all before but they look in their eyes and the way they explained it to me as I did their taxes just mad me think and I got another wrinkle in my brain.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I just had a 15 minute sitdown with a couple married for 46 year and then another one with a couple married for 51.&nbsp; They gave me all kinda tips.&nbsp; The biggest thing they kept saying was that I had to love and respect the other person (duh) and that its a 50\/50 thing and [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-138","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ocbenji.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/138","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ocbenji.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ocbenji.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ocbenji.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ocbenji.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=138"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ocbenji.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/138\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ocbenji.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=138"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ocbenji.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=138"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ocbenji.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=138"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}