Tonight I’m coming to you from next to a sleeping, drooling, snoring, yet precious baby boy. Which got me thinking about how things can seem all great but can have a nasty side to them. Take my son for instance, lord knows I’d rip this universe apart if I thought it would help him in any way, he is a very presentable cute little guy. As most babies are, he even does all the cute baby things like clap, smile, giggle, give hi-fives, hug, and kiss. But on the other side of this dark moon, there are the diapers which could be classified as weapons of mass destruction after certain meals. In today’s world full of happy commercials and positive ideals, the not so good seems to be left out alot. Its alot like women, now i can only speak from my own perspective so try to understand. Women are portrayed as the clean, sweet smelling, and organized gender and us guys are supposed to be dirty and stuff. While most of it is gender stereotypes doing what they do best, alot of it is just ignoring the truth. I was raised to believe that the stereotypes were true. You can only imagine my shock when I found out that all women were not the fair, nice, and understanding creatures they were made out to be. Needless to say, I’ve been burned in relationships before. Under the assumption that women didn’t lie, they didn’t cheat or did anything intentional to hurt anybody. I was raised to treat a women that i was with like a queen no matter what! But what do you do when your queen treats you like her bitch? Do you take it and not sink down to her level or do you give it back to her with both barrels? Well let me just tell you that the high road doesn’t take you anywhere except, your my bitch Ave. Am I bitter? Not really, if there is one thing that I have learned from life, its NUTPOP. Which is a little acronym that means Never Underestimate The Power Of Possibility. I learned the game, more than that, I learned women, well as much as any guy could understand. Women isn’t a class its more like a Doctorate program. Lesson #1 : You will never completely understand women. Lesson #2 : Women are as different as snowflakes, no two are alike. Granted I have a million more lessons on the topic of women, these two will have to suffice for now. I will include a more complete list in the forthcoming Women For Dummies post. Night all!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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