A client of mine told me something that I was surprised to hear. He pulled me to the side and told me that he has been watching me run around, handle clients, and generally be busy. He told me that I was doing a great job for somebody my age and that he was proud [...]

“We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and fabolous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small doesn’t serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We were born to make manifest the [...]

What is the OCBENJI Blog (beta)? Originally OC stood for Out of Control and because of my crazy nature I was nicknamed OCBENJI. Well over the years OC has changed its meaning a few times. From Over Compensating to Organized Chaos and my personal favorite, Outrageously Calm. For the site it means Originally Creative. Which [...]