Tonight marks the last night that I will spending at the only home Aden and I have even known since I became a father and he became my son. Alot has happened in this house, good and bad. My son was born and spent his entire life living here. As I look out of my [...]

I performed in church today. It took me 2 hours to write what I spoke. At least she liked it. Everything is going so fast these days, I’m moving, school is starting again, work is about to get really busy, I get to go to Virgina for business (yay!), I have to make sure my [...]

As she looked in my eyes I knew her words would be meaningless. Her glaze was deafening. She spoke while speaking but saying different things. What is someone “supposed to” do? Of course I knew my answer as others know theirs. Her eyes glaze up from the tears she holds back. Its one of those [...]

Ok so I’ve known for a long time that there was a god but he/she is really making his/her presence known.  I’ve been tested and I’m guessing that I passed because I’ve been blessed with everything I could ever want or need.  Lets review shall we?  I have a great job on campus which is [...]

What is the OCBENJI Blog (beta)? Originally OC stood for Out of Control and because of my crazy nature I was nicknamed OCBENJI. Well over the years OC has changed its meaning a few times. From Over Compensating to Organized Chaos and my personal favorite, Outrageously Calm. For the site it means Originally Creative. Which [...]

“The thought wasn’t mine but, she’s still in the brain And I know wherever she’s at, she’s feelin’ the same So ’till my fantasy dame pop up Everytime the cell rings I’m prayin that her name pop up I know, I ain’t supposed to wife her But it’s God’s fault, I wasn’t supposed to like [...]