Ok so I’m thinking somewhere in Iowa for my get away. Any suggestions? On another note, things are starting to look a little clearer Today was Rachel’s birthday and I didn’t get her anything, and if you know me then you know that its super rare for my lady not to be showered with gifts. [...]

And so another day passes and I realize that I’m getting better at what I need to do. XBOX 360 baby! The Daily Benji: “I would rather think too much than too little, ok I lied, I hate thinking”

I finally remembered to get my Invader Zim! Well thanks to the great and wise Megsta i might have a solution to “finding” myself. A little me time. Anybody wanna come? Well sorry, its just me, myself, and I for a whole weekend. Its something that I think I need but we’ll see if its [...]

The headaches are getting worse, now I know how Jack feels. I had that damn dream again. Seriously my mind should not be there. Laurie made a boy very nervous today, it was sooo precious! You go girl! Aden is getting bigger and smarter and he smiles more than anything now and boy can he [...]

Well I can’t say who they are but the winners of the 1st OCBENJI sweepstakes are getting their prizes mailed to them today!!!

In the words of JV, “My head be bangin!” The 3 am meetings Aden and me have been having are finally starting to take their toll. I’ll deal. I tried to make Rach’s 1st Mothers Day special with some Coldstone since the videotape of Aden and me didn’t work out. Oh well……….HAPPY MOMMY’S DAY RACHEL!!!! [...]

Well my lady and my baby have left town for a til tomorrow night, and what is Benji doing, working all day. But it’ll be ok Jack kept me company, and we ran into Carrie!!!! But she raised some more questions about her. Well I’ll figure it out. Hopefully I can get in contact with [...]

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