In 10 minutes it will technically be my birthday. Thats right, I will officially be 25. Still young by standard standards but I still feel a lot more wiser. Now when one thinks about their birthday, they usually look back at their last birthday. I won’t be any different. Last year’s birthday was filled with [...]

I’m still pretty much the same. Just upgraded a little here and there but still essentially the same. Like the same car but with different wheels and computer system. I’ve been a little inspirationally starving even though I’ve had lots of that kind of food shoved my way. Its like I have the lamp that [...]

He watches his son ask he begs for 5 more minutes of a movie he sees a glimpse of the future. One of those glimpses like deja vu that he always sees and forgets only to see it again as it happens. He sees his son older as he saw his younger brother, as he [...]

World’s Toughest Cowboy Three cowboys are sitting around a campfire, out on the lonesome prairie, each with the bravado for which cowboys are famous. A night of tall tales commences. The first says, “I must be the meanest, toughest cowboy there is. Why, just the other day, a bull got loose in the corral and [...]

That OCBENJI is a silly bitch! And I am bringing sexy back. Those are just two of the popular sayings that have been going around and I just had to use them at least once for no particular reason at all. So…. yea lots of new things are happening, lots of good things First off [...]

There is nothing left that can stop me now so why do I hesitate I finally figured out what OC stands for in my self-appointed nickname OCBenji “Organized Chaos” I think it fits, don’t you? I’m learning that the more I push my limits, the more those limits seem to be nonexistent, “Leap and the [...]

The Vapor Trail Random Brutal Love Master (RBLMm) Here today, gone today. You are The Vapor Trail. Are you in a relationship now? Your exact opposite: The Backrubber Deliberate Gentle Sex Dreamer What about now? Vapor Trails can be highly charismatic people–unpredictable, confident, and magnetic. You’re experienced. You know how to handle yourself in a [...]

Well I don’t know what it is about weddings but this one must have been special, because it helped me decided that I (gasp) actually want to get married. I guess now I actually have to find a girlfriend. Effective immediately I will be accepting applications. Prospective Girlfriend Wanted: Qualified applicants will include females who [...]

Like the subject said, tonight was a traffic jam of feelings and I’m in one of the cars buried under it all. I was taught tonight that contrary to my beliefs we as humans do need the feel, the touch, the feeling of somebody near. We are social creatures I guess and I’m no exception. [...]

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