So I’ve been making some more tweaks to the site. Fixing some stuff while breaking other stuff. Things are coming along slowly with my job playing vampire clock, sucking all of my time away. But my work continues nonetheless. I’m looking for writers for the site. If interested, email ocbenji@ocbenji.com stating what you could bring [...]

www.ocbenji.com Yes ladies and gentlemen, it’s live! Its been a dream of mine for a while to have a site to call my own and after the bidding war from hell, here we are.  Now I won’t get into everything this site will be about yet because I’m still in talks with some other partners.  [...]

I really love writing in my blog, for no other reason than that other people read it and somehow benefit from it. Attention is something we all pursue as part of our human nature. But in exchange for that attention I want to give some entertainment and insight back in return. As a man I [...]

I decided today that I have two passions. Art and Taxes. I’m a quirky one, thats for sure but I love them both. But let me define. Taxes is pretty self explanatory, I love everything about them, the way you can play with the numbers to your advantage or use them to screw somebody and [...]

Writer’s block. But not. I have too much going on here and no way to pick what to throw out there so instead of writing something I will regret I will just give you my boring day in fun little bullet points. No matter how many times I put Aden back in his bed last [...]

Ladies, Gents and other people bored enough to be reading this, welcome. My day was about as memorable as ever for a few reasons. And all of those reasons gave me the shivers. I even woke up this morning to a shiver. I usually decide what to write about based on shivers. You know those [...]

If you like the nice and politically correct, gentlemanly, and coherent Benji, then you might want to skip this one….. Don’t say I didn’t warn you. So I’m over a friend’s house helping her with her very complicated taxes and out of NOWHERE this bitch turns into the megaphone for God and starts ranting about [...]

I had more fun this weekend than I should have had. I drank again. I thought Aden hated me. Ever since he was little, every time he saw my face, he would just smile through his excited eyes. But over the weekend, it was all about playing with his aunt and cousins. Granted they are [...]

I was at work today on a personal call and had an epiphany or maybe just a duh moment. You all know that rule. The one that states that when your with someone, that everybody wants you and when you single, nobody does. Its been said a million different ways like, “a watched pot never [...]