have you ever looked at a picture of yourself and seen a stranger in the background? it makes you wonder how many strangers have a photo of you. how many moments of other peoples lives have we been in? are we part of someones life when their dreams come true? or were we there when [...]

I thought of you alot today as I put on the ring you wore. Everything was alot different back then. I actually had you. Back then we made each other happy without effort, without even trying. Even after how things ended I still wouldn’t change a thing. You were right, it was short but very [...]

Hi Yall

I’m feeling super wonderful people. Life is really good and things just keep getting better and better. My new biz is growing comfortably and I’ve got my eye on somebody romantically. I haven’t had time in the last few days to really write on the site like I would like to but I have been [...]

Before I start this let me just say that I’m now perceived as a cocky, arrogant, know it all. When I was younger, I was a pushover.  My dad was one especially with my mom so I’m guessing thats where I got it.  Not to mention I was raised in a house of women with [...]

When I was younger I had a really bad temper. It took me until I was about 10 to really grow out of it but I remember how my blood would boil and I would lose control as if my hate was playing Geppetto with my puppet strings. So after I became a real boy, [...]

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They have been warning us of a winter storm for a few days and today it finally hit. Good news is that for the first time in at least five years my job actually closed down. No tax preparation for me today. Aden and me it the hay inside while the snow hit the ground [...]

Ok so you may have or may not have noticed that I kinda sold out with all the ads on the side and bottom of the page. I decided that this was the most effective way to balance the costs that come with running the site. So to show your appreciation feel free to click [...]

So work on the site continues. If you’ve been on it in the last few days, you’ve noticed that the site has been changing more than a teenager going thru puberty.  But I finally decided on a look.  I think it looks good and clean like a fresh cut lawn.  Some features on the site [...]