I’m watching American Idol with Aden right now and I realized something.  The strategy for winning is the same as it is for an election.  Its all based on votes and I don’t care if you sing as bad as me, you will have certain people who will vote for you no matter what.  I [...]

Due to some scheduling stuff with Aden’s mom and me, Aden and me actually spent some time by the lake. I’ve never seen the lake all frozen the way it was.

A client of mine told me something that I was surprised to hear. He pulled me to the side and told me that he has been watching me run around, handle clients, and generally be busy. He told me that I was doing a great job for somebody my age and that he was proud [...]

They have been warning us of a winter storm for a few days and today it finally hit. Good news is that for the first time in at least five years my job actually closed down. No tax preparation for me today. Aden and me it the hay inside while the snow hit the ground [...]

So the little man has been sick ever since this morning so we’ve bee inside all day. My poor baby has been throwing up and feverish all day. Doc Daddy was here to take care of him though. He’s normally a tough kid so when he comes to me with a face so sad I [...]

A few remixes of some personal faves of mine. Enjoy! OC Remixes Black Horse and Cherry Tree OC Remix [Audio clip: view full post to listen] Crazy OC Remix [Audio clip: view full post to listen] One Mic Preview [Audio clip: view full post to listen] Mic Checkin (featuring Aden J) [Audio clip: view full [...]

So I’ve been making some more tweaks to the site. Fixing some stuff while breaking other stuff. Things are coming along slowly with my job playing vampire clock, sucking all of my time away. But my work continues nonetheless. I’m looking for writers for the site. If interested, email ocbenji@ocbenji.com stating what you could bring [...]

I decided today that I have two passions. Art and Taxes. I’m a quirky one, thats for sure but I love them both. But let me define. Taxes is pretty self explanatory, I love everything about them, the way you can play with the numbers to your advantage or use them to screw somebody and [...]

Writer’s block. But not. I have too much going on here and no way to pick what to throw out there so instead of writing something I will regret I will just give you my boring day in fun little bullet points. No matter how many times I put Aden back in his bed last [...]

Message to Sharon I met her about a month and a half ago and we fell instantly in love. Everything about her seemed to fit in my life so perfectly like legos. She has a daughter, who is a few months older than Aden. They get along great. She surprised me with how strong and [...]