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Love or Fear? →  July 1, 2010

I was talking with someone that I admire very much and she told me that you act either out of Love or Fear.  Love cannot exist in fear and fear cannot exist in love. Hearing it woke me up a little.  Actually alot!  I started questioning my actions of late.  Was I acting out of […]

Ten Things I Love About My Son and Why →  May 23, 2010

He’s so gosh darn cute! –  Yea every child is cute (ok, maybe not all of them) especially your own but he has this look about him that is young and youthful and at the same time mature.  Its one of the reasons I’ve always called him my “Little Man.” He tells it how it […]

Welcome Home Benji →  May 5, 2010

Hey folks, I know its been a long time since I’ve written (Jan 6 to be exact) and I apologize, I’ve been getting some things straight in my life.  Aden and mine’s family has doubled pretty quickly and we love it!  I now have an older son.  I’ve also been working on a couple of […]

Southern Exposure →  March 28, 2010

The Vegas Takeover →  March 18, 2010

Scaredy Cat →  January 6, 2010

Scaredy Cat My lifelong pet who grew pretty fat through the years On a diet of worry, uncertainty, and fears You watch me move toward dreams and aspirations With a disapproving look, you cause me hesitations I wish you would just leave and run away Disappear altogether and become a stray My actions betray my […]

Stalking Yourself →  January 5, 2010

Stalking Yourself Contradiction.  In case you missed it, let me say it again.  Contradiction.  That’s what we all are.  What?  Its in that great divide between how most of us act versus who we really are inside and what we really want to do.  I understand that we have to behave in order to keep […]

The Gallery is Up!!!! →  December 28, 2009

Welcome to the New Gallery!!!!

Where Were You When I Needed You? →  December 6, 2009

Where Were You When I Needed You? Where were you when I needed you? When my heart fell apart and I needed the glue When I stood cold and alone You didn’t answer your phone When nothing seemed to dull the pain I sat and I cried and sobbed your name I needed you bad, […]

OCBENJI.com Word of the Day 11/26/2009: Interruption →  November 26, 2009