So I’ve been making some more tweaks to the site. Fixing some stuff while breaking other stuff. Things are coming along slowly with my job playing vampire clock, sucking all of my time away. But my work continues nonetheless. I’m looking for writers for the site. If interested, email ocbenji@ocbenji.com stating what you could bring [...]

www.ocbenji.com Yes ladies and gentlemen, it’s live! Its been a dream of mine for a while to have a site to call my own and after the bidding war from hell, here we are.  Now I won’t get into everything this site will be about yet because I’m still in talks with some other partners.  [...]

I really love writing in my blog, for no other reason than that other people read it and somehow benefit from it. Attention is something we all pursue as part of our human nature. But in exchange for that attention I want to give some entertainment and insight back in return. As a man I [...]

I decided today that I have two passions. Art and Taxes. I’m a quirky one, thats for sure but I love them both. But let me define. Taxes is pretty self explanatory, I love everything about them, the way you can play with the numbers to your advantage or use them to screw somebody and [...]

Writer’s block. But not. I have too much going on here and no way to pick what to throw out there so instead of writing something I will regret I will just give you my boring day in fun little bullet points. No matter how many times I put Aden back in his bed last [...]

Scorpio Romance Profile October 23 – November 21 Ruling the House of Sex can either be a blessing or a curse, and a lot depends on how the wily Scorpion deals with this erotic burden. Those mystical and magical creatures born under the sign of Scorpio are quick to channel their raw energy, power and [...]

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Message to Sharon I met her about a month and a half ago and we fell instantly in love. Everything about her seemed to fit in my life so perfectly like legos. She has a daughter, who is a few months older than Aden. They get along great. She surprised me with how strong and [...]

Ladies, Gents and other people bored enough to be reading this, welcome. My day was about as memorable as ever for a few reasons. And all of those reasons gave me the shivers. I even woke up this morning to a shiver. I usually decide what to write about based on shivers. You know those [...]

First and foremost I have to give an overdue super shout out to the funniest, coolest woman I know in the eastern timezone, Sharon. Who, is one of my five wise women and I have to give her credit for two things. First she survived a drive with Mr Groves when he was in her [...]